Guys in my restaurant's bar make the same mistakes every night. Mistake # 5 Putting too much pressure on yourself to meet women.
The last one is the most important. Remember why you are there in the first place: To have a good time.
Have patience with yourself and give yourself permission to relax. Some guys get too attached to the outcome with women and even relate what happens to their own self-worth. You know yourself better than anyone else.
Clubs are a place where almost everyone has a very strong social mask up and it can be hard to reach the real person underneath. So if things don’t go as planned, don’t beat yourself up about it. Just leave the unwanted feelings at the club and enjoy what you do have.
When you see every interaction within the club as amusing or an opportunity to "play with others", you’ll create a magnetic vibe and others will naturally be pulled in towards you.
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