Saturday, December 31, 2011

Look Into My Eyes

Health and Beauty Tip -- Applying Mascara

Tired of your mascara flaking off or smudging? Apply mascara only to your top lashes, then run an eyelash brush through to separate the lashes and avoid clumping and build-up.

Do You Say --- Clit- A- Vision?

Today's Word "clicktivism"
activism enacted by clicking on a web link
clicktivism \KLIK-tih-vih-sihm\ (noun) - activism or charity enacted from the comfort of your home by clicking on a link on the Internet.

"The most retweeted tweet of 2011 was one in which Wendy's promised to send 50 cents to children in foster care with every retweet, ultimately raising $50,000, a prime example of clicktivism and perhaps the best use of Twitter ever."

Combination of "click" as in an action, plus "activism."

What Reputation?

Your actions are sincere but may have negative repercussions at work.

Your reputation is on the line. You have to figure out how best to support what you believe and how to deal with any consequences.

How to Find Your G-Spot

By Dana Demas, Special to Lifescript
Looking for your G-spot? You’re not the only one. If you’re not sure where to start or whether it even exists, we have some tips to show you the way. Our sexperts give step-by-step instructions to finding the pleasure zone, including which methods work best in the bedroom. Plus, how sexually adventurous are you? Take our quiz and find out...

The fabled G-spot. For some women, it’s a pleasurable reality. For others, it’s like leprechauns, unicorns and $20 Jimmy Choos – it doesn’t exist. Most women are pleased with a regular orgasm. But is there something that’s even better?

The physical truth: There's a mass of spongy tissue that surrounds the urethra, called the urethral sponge. And like other parts of the body, the tissue is full of blood vessels and nerve endings.

Doctors and researchers agree that the sponge exists, but they disagree about whether it’s an epicenter of an orgasmic earthquake.

“We know something is there − way too many women have had pleasure by stimulating… that area of the vagina,” says Amy Levine, certified sexual educator and founder of SexedSolutions.com. “We also know some women ejaculate when there’s pressure applied to the same area.”
Anatomy of a G-SpotThe G-spot isn’t a newfangled discovery. It was first noted in the 1940s by German gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg (hence the “G”). The “magic button” became popular in 1982 with the publication of sex researcher Beverly Whipple’s best-selling book
The G Spot: And Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality (Holt Paperbacks).

Decades of debate followed: Is the G-spot myth or science? Does every woman have one? Is it the key to the ultimate orgasm?

Every woman’s vulva and vagina is not the same, and bundles of highly sensitive nerve endings may be in different places. Which may explain why some respond well to a certain technique or position and others don’t.

In fact, the G-spot may be less of a spot and more of a zone that’s hard to pinpoint from one woman to the next, explaining why evidence has been hard to come by.
To Have or Have NotBut a study by researchers at Italy’s University of L’Aquila claims to have found physiological proof of a G-spot.

Using vaginal ultrasounds, the researchers found thicker tissue between the vagina and the urethra − where the G-spot is thought to reside − in women who reported having vaginal orgasms, but not in women who reported having clitoral orgasms.

Lead researcher Emmanuele Jannini, M.D., concluded that some women have a G-spot and others don’t.

But Levine says the study isn’t evidence of anything. It tested only 20 women, “an extremely small sample size,” she says. “And 20 women aren’t necessarily representative of all women.”

Plus, there’s also no way of knowing what came first, the G-spot or the vaginal orgasm, Levine says.

“It could be that women with thicker tissue suggestive of a G-spot have had more experience stimulating the area.”
Better Orgasms… MaybeSo why the fuss? Supposedly, a G-spot orgasm is the end-all, be-all of pleasure… which makes it all the more tantalizing.

In
The Guide to Getting It On (Goofy Foot Press), sex researcher Paul Joannides writes that feelings in the clitoris get to the brain via the pudendal nerve, and vaginal sensations (including the G-spot) are sent to the brain through the pelvic nerve.

Because of this, stimulating both spots may lead to a more intense or “full” orgasm.

Levine agrees. Because the clitoris and the G-spot are different erogenous zones, “stimulating both is going to make for a more powerful orgasm for many women,” she says.

Some women describe clitoral orgasms as more “shallow” and vaginal orgasms as “deeper” or more intense, Levine says.
Mining for G-oldSo, how can you find your G-spot? Experimentation, a healthy mindset and a little patience are the keys.

Most important: Get fully aroused, Levine says, because “the G-spot swells the more aroused a woman gets.”

Full arousal differs for every woman: It may be five minutes into sexual activity… or 25.

Once aroused and lubricated, follow these steps:

1. Insert a finger (yours or your partner’s) in the vagina.

2. Run it along the top wall of the vagina. Look out for an area that feels different from the rest of the tissue. Perhaps it’s more pleasurable when touched.

3. If you find a spot that feels promising, stimulate the area with a “come-hither” motion.

For many women, the G-spot is about halfway between the vaginal opening and the cervix, Levine says.

If not there, try feeling closer to the vaginal opening or the cervix.

“Many women are scared about peeing during G-spot stimulation because it triggers a similar sensation, like they have to urinate,” Levine says.

Her recommendation: Urinate beforehand to put your mind at ease about wetting the bed.

Once the G-spot is stimulated to the point of swelling, the peeing feeling usually subsides, perhaps giving way to pleasure.

For some women, G-spot stimulation triggers the release of fluid from the Skene’s glands in the urethra, usually at orgasm.
Another MethodYou can also seek out the G-spot the old-fashioned way − during intercourse.

Several positions are ideal for this:
Woman on top“This allows a woman to experiment with the angle that works best for her,” Levine says. ”Leaning back slightly while she’s on top targets the upper vaginal wall.”
Rear entry“This works especially well if a woman can angle her body down by resting on her elbows,” Levine says.
MissionaryG-spot stimulation can be enhanced by squeezing your pelvic floor muscles around your partner’s penis. (It boosts his arousal too.)

Couples can experiment with angling his body up slightly so their pelvic bones are aligned and the penis is at the right angle to provide G-spot stimulation.

Couples should maintain a gentle rocking motion. This position, called the coital-alignment technique, also provides clitoral stimulation.

Levine also encourages women (and their partners) to explore sex toys designed for G-spot stimulation. They're generally angled at the tip to target the upper vaginal wall, and can be made of various materials, such as soft silicone, plastic or even glass.

Just remember: What worked for your best friend may not work for you.

And most important, resist the urge to get G-spot tunnel vision.

“Orgasm is a subjective experience and that’s exactly the way it’s supposed to be,” Levine says.

Good sex is as much about a mental connection as a physical one. Feeling comfortable with your partner and yourself is a prerequisite to pleasure. So enjoy the journey and what you find, even if X doesn’t mark the G-spot.

6 Reasons Why Women Cheat


By Norine Dworkin-McDaniel, Special to LifeScript
 
Hillary Clinton became the symbol of long-suffering married women everywhere when she stood by her man… twice. But now when a woman feels dissatisfied in her relationship, she doesn’t just complain to her friends over cosmopolitans. She gets a private email account, posts a profile at LonelyCheatingWives.com and starts looking for hookups herself. Find out why the stigma is gone with these 6 reasons women cheat...
Accurate stats on women’s infidelity are understandably hard to come by since – no surprise here – ladies aren’t always keen on ’fessing up to their extracurricular activities.

“Affairs are not uncommon,” says clinical psychologist Nancy O’Reilly (aka Dr. Nancy). “Women tend to keep these things to themselves, but there are signs that they’re catching up with the guys.”

It’s guesstimated that 14%-40% of married women have intimately tangoed with someone other than their husbands.

In one unscientific yet telling poll at WomanSavers.com (the self-proclaimed “world’s largest database rating good and bad men”), women were asked if they had ever cheated.Of the more than 9,400 women who responded, 49% said they had.

Another 26% said that they’d have no problem stepping out on their partners if they knew they could get away with it.

Why?

The easy answer is that women today have the same opportunities to cheat as guys always did, says Dr. Nancy.

Not only do working women have the chance to mix and mingle with would-be lovers (both in the office and on business trips), but the Internet is filled with chat rooms and Web sites like AshleyMadison.com and AffairMatch.com that blatantly court married men and women looking for a little something on the side.
Even so, it takes more than mere opportunity to get a gal to slide between someone else’s sheets.

We asked relationship experts to explain what inclines one woman to drop trou while another keeps her knickers on. Here are the six most common reasons:
1. Familiarity has bred indifference.The most common justification for infidelity that Dr. Nancy hears from women is that they feel taken for granted.

You discuss what the kids did in school and which bills need to be paid, when the car needs an oil change and whether you should paint the house.

But you haven’t really talked in a while.

You know, about all those things – hopes, dreams, ideals – that you spent hours discussing as you lay in each other’s arms... before you had kids, car payments and a mortgage.When a woman feels like little more than a household drudge, attention from someone else becomes extremely seductive.

“If there’s a failure to communicate – which is so reinforcing to women in terms of intimacy, emotional satisfaction and relationship satisfaction – then women look outside the relationship for that kind of connection,” says family and marriage therapist Terri Orbuch, host of Detroit’s Love Doctor TV and radio programs.

“This is the most important reason women cheat. When you’re unhappy or dissatisfied in your relationship, you’re more likely to be tempted to look elsewhere.”

And, she adds, you begin to perceive “opportunities” – like Mr. Eager To Fill The Proverbial Void – very differently.


2. You’re leading parallel lives.
You used to travel the same path side by side, but lately your interests have diverged.

Your guy wants to shoot pool with his buddies or watch football during his free time; you’d rather go antiquing or watch British costume dramas.
When you start doing things separately, your odds of connecting with others who share your interests increase.

Soon you may suspect you have more in common with that guy you keep spotting at the Saturday revival showings of The English Patient than with your hubby.

Share a couple of large buttered popcorns, and suddenly he’s Ralph Fiennes and you’re Kristin Scott Thomas, sneaking around on Colin Firth.
3. The passion has fizzled.“Some women are in pretty good marriages – things are good, the kids are fine, the husband’s OK – but she’s bored and needs some excitement,” Dr. Nancy says.

And a casual affair may put some zing back in her days.

“It’s something new, different and exciting,” adds Stephany Alexander, online dating expert and founder of WomanSavers.com. “A cheating woman seeks the thrill of the chase and to see if she can get away with it.”
4. The fantasy has fizzled.A corollary to fizzling passion occurs when the romance fades and you realize your guy is not the fantasy man you fell in love with.

Instead, he’s a mass of irksome habits that are starting to get under your skin.

“Women who have false illusions tend to end up cheating because they never really knew the guy to begin with... or hoped he would change,” Alexander says.

“When a woman’s Prince Charming turns out to be a frog, women often cheat in hopes of finding a new prince.”
5. Your ego needs a boost.You can be in a relationship with a perfectly wonderful, loving man and still need extra affirmation that you’ve got it goin’ on.

Sleeping with someone else is an easy way to remind yourself that you’re desirable.

“Even if your partner is reassuring, for whatever reason, it’s not enough,” Orbuch explains, “and so you look elsewhere, so you can feel like you’re lovable.”
6. It’s payback time.Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, as the saying goes.

And when a woman catches her man with his hand in someone else’s cookie jar, she figures she’s got a right to a little indulgence of her own.

“If a woman finds out her significant other has been cheating, she may heal those hurt feelings by having sex with another man,” Alexander says.

So, if women cheat mainly because they no longer feel connected to their man, what makes a guy seek something on the side?

Burn Baby Burn!

AUGUSTA, Maine (AP) — A man blamed for a fire that destroyed a coffee shop where topless waitresses worked has been found guilty of arson.
A jury convicted Raymond Bellavance Jr. on Friday after deliberating for four hours.

Prosecutors said "anger and jealousy" caused Bellavance to set fire to the coffee shop, where his ex-girlfriend worked as a waitress. Deputy District Attorney Alan Kelley told jurors Bellavance was "a volatile man" who was quick to anger because his former girlfriend was having a relationship with the shop's owner, the Bangor Daily News reported.

The Grand View Coffee Shop in Vassalboro, a town of about 4,000 residents just north of the state capital, Augusta, burned down June 3, 2009.
The defense insisted Bellavance didn't do it.
Bellavance testified he wasn't jealous. He said other people, including a man who testified he helped set the fire, were lying.
A witness who recently finished a drug rehabilitation program testified last week that he was present when Bellavance poured and ignited gasoline behind the coffee shop in the early morning hours. Thomas Mulkern said Bellavance then became upset, telling him they could get life in prison because there were people inside the adjoining apartments.
Coffee shop owner Donald Crabtree and six other people, including two infants, were sleeping in a room connected to the shop. All escaped without injury.

How many of you think fisting is a taboo subject?

Now taboo ... but not my thing!

Yes I am

Monday, December 26, 2011

Look Up!

Stars

What would be the best workplace perk?

What would be the best workplace perk?
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how closely do you follow current events?

how closely do you follow current events?
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Without Touching

what sizes have you seen? whats your favorite? whats the smallest?

Not sure what size of things you are talking about?

What's the best place near you to get a pizza?

What's the best place near you to get a pizza?
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How you like to cook your steak?

How you like to cook your steak?
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are younger guys better than older?

It depends on what you are after ... If i am looking for quick and often ... then younger. If I am looking for slow and good than older .... if I am looking for huge then make it black ....

how was your christmas honey

Awesome. Got together with family.... Mom, Dad, Two sisters (Melissa and Megan) and their hubbys (Todd and Michael) and Third sis - Melody and her new GF - Cash.

Would you rather watch two people having sex knowing you can't get off or would you rather be the person having sex and being watched?

Would you rather watch two people having sex knowing you can't get off or would you rather be the person having sex and being watched?
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Need More




Have you ever fantasized about having sex with someone else while in a monogamous relationship?

Have you ever fantasized about having sex with someone else while in a monogamous relationship?
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Do you look good in whatever you wear?

Do you look good in whatever you wear?
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as often as i'll part your slutty thighs and suck your big clitty in public like the horny lil shemale you are

Daily I hope

Hi Nikkij, l absolutely love TGirls and love sucking TGirl cock. I love kneeling in front of stockinged legs that have a cock sticking out above them and licking sucking that cock. Do you like your cock to be worshipped like that?

as often as I can!

Thanks for helping me reach 10 Smiles this week!!! You are the greatest!

you are very welcome

What's a shemale?

Dah ... a ladyboi

So would I get to suck you off?(:

I assume you are of age ... of course

No, but ya'll are very attractive

thank you .. and my clitty is fully functional

Would you fuck me?

in a heartbeat! Have you ever been with a shemale?

What position do you prefer?

Often

Let's Strut

Join Me

Would you have sex with a girl?

Yes I have ... was married for 6 six years ... and love to do women as often as I can

Are you a t-girl?

yes .. fully functional with boobies

Have you ever had sex with someone while you were working, talking on your cell phone?

Have you ever had sex with someone while you were working, talking on your cell phone?
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Favorite undies style ... and what color

Favorite undies style ... and what color
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I wasn't sure what pegging was so I googled it, do you enjoy pegging?

I love being pegged ...

what did your mom say when she walked in on u doing that and seeing that

what did your mom say when she walked in on u doing that and seeing that
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What's your favorite position?

cowgirl

Have you ever been to a wedding where someone has stepped forward at the "if you know of any reason why this couple should not be married...." part?

Have you ever been to a wedding where someone has stepped forward at the "if you know of any reason why this couple should not be married...." part?
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Do you enjoy phone sex?

Absolutely

What's your favorite toy and why do you love it?

What's your favorite toy and why do you love it?
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how do you like to be teased?

how do you like to be teased?
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Have you ever had sex in a train, plane, or automobile?

Have you ever had sex in a train, plane, or automobile?
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How important do you think fidelity is, in a relationship?

How important do you think fidelity is, in a relationship?
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what is something, aside from the normal sex stuff, that a man might do for you that would make you go weak in the knees? Like, a gesture, a look, a phrase, a compliment, a touch....what?

what is something, aside from the normal sex stuff, that a man might do for you that would make you go weak in the knees? Like, a gesture, a look, a phrase, a compliment, a touch....what?
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Have you ever had phone sex?

Have you ever had phone sex?
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