How To Spot
Relationship Warning Signs
All relationships go
through that wonderful honeymoon phase, but what happens after good graces have
faded? Many relationships continue down that path of happiness, however, some
couples’ bliss turns sour as they get to know each other on a more intimate
level. Below are some relationship red flags to be wary of which will help you
determine if it is time to end your relationship and move on with
your life.
Downfall of a Mama’s Boy
You may have been attracted to the fact he prides himself on being a family man, and why wouldn’t you? However, when he is at his mom’s every weekend (or maybe even still lives there), then you may find that three’s a crowd.
Many men struggle to move on from the nest, because they prefer not having the hassle of laundry and cooking. If your man happens to be the youngest in his family, chances are mom has no desire to let go of him. After all, why should he leave home until he is in a serious relationship? Unfortunately, it can be difficult to be the woman attempting to woo him away. If he is working full time and saving for a big endeavor such as purchasing his own home, then living with the parents may be acceptable. However, if he is bumming around on the couch all day and mama just bought him a Playstation to go with her big screen TV in the living room, then it may be time to say bye-bye to baby boy.
Downfall of a Mama’s Boy
You may have been attracted to the fact he prides himself on being a family man, and why wouldn’t you? However, when he is at his mom’s every weekend (or maybe even still lives there), then you may find that three’s a crowd.
Many men struggle to move on from the nest, because they prefer not having the hassle of laundry and cooking. If your man happens to be the youngest in his family, chances are mom has no desire to let go of him. After all, why should he leave home until he is in a serious relationship? Unfortunately, it can be difficult to be the woman attempting to woo him away. If he is working full time and saving for a big endeavor such as purchasing his own home, then living with the parents may be acceptable. However, if he is bumming around on the couch all day and mama just bought him a Playstation to go with her big screen TV in the living room, then it may be time to say bye-bye to baby boy.
Sometimes a meddling
mother can be an issue as well, especially if your guy is not attempting to
deal with the situation. Some mothers just won’t let go, and want to know every
intimate detail of their son’s dating life.
Prevent this from happening to you by asking about his living situation on the first date. Make it clear you are an independent woman and don’t want to play mother to anyone. Not sure if your guy is being honest about his circumstances? If he never invites you over, that may be a warning sign that he is still comfy in the nest. Dating a family guy is a great thing, but don’t let that swoon you too quickly. Some guys are ready to start their own, while others are perfectly content to stay where they are.
Dangerous Warning Signs of Relationship Issues
A hot tempered man can be admirable when he is defending your honor, but a relationship with a man who has a short fuse can be dangerous. Abusive relationships are never worth staying in, however, unfortunately many women do not recognize – or ignore – the early warning signs in a relationship.
If your guy wants to know of your whereabouts at all times, his jealousy might be something in danger of spiraling out of control. It’s sweet when your boyfriend is thinking about and wanting to be with you, however, it is unacceptable for him to expect you to punch a time clock with him.
Prevent this from happening to you by asking about his living situation on the first date. Make it clear you are an independent woman and don’t want to play mother to anyone. Not sure if your guy is being honest about his circumstances? If he never invites you over, that may be a warning sign that he is still comfy in the nest. Dating a family guy is a great thing, but don’t let that swoon you too quickly. Some guys are ready to start their own, while others are perfectly content to stay where they are.
Dangerous Warning Signs of Relationship Issues
A hot tempered man can be admirable when he is defending your honor, but a relationship with a man who has a short fuse can be dangerous. Abusive relationships are never worth staying in, however, unfortunately many women do not recognize – or ignore – the early warning signs in a relationship.
If your guy wants to know of your whereabouts at all times, his jealousy might be something in danger of spiraling out of control. It’s sweet when your boyfriend is thinking about and wanting to be with you, however, it is unacceptable for him to expect you to punch a time clock with him.
Be wary of such
possessive behavior, and don’t be afraid to ask others of their opinions. If
your friends have not met him yet even though you’ve been dating for several
months, this is another warning sign. Abusive relationships often start with a
fair bit of antisocial behavior.Never stay in an abusive situation. Your life is too valuable, and somewhere out there is a decent man who will treat you right.
Ending Warning Signs In Relationships
Sometimes, a warning sign you notice in a relationship has nothing to do with abuse or neediness, but rather quite the opposite as your significant other begins to “phase out” of the couple, wanting to move on to other things. While a lot of breakups are mutual and drama-free, there are some that get very ugly before reaching a conclusion.
It is important to show respect for each other when you are dating, however, when things get difficult, many couples forget this level of courtesy for one another. There are a few warning signs that a relationship is about to end – or at least one of the halves is less than thrilled to be taking part.
Withdrawal and avoidance from activities you once enjoyed can be a first red flag. If your partner is simply unwilling to spend time with you like he once did, then you may begin to suspect he has either moved on or is seeing someone else. This can be a hurtful assumption, so be sure to have a basis for your accusation before making it, but know avoidance can definitely be the beginning of the end.
Many men do not want
to spend a lot of time talking about their emotions, and when a relationship is
turning sour, you will find they are making such a minimal effort it is as if
they have already left. They may put off conversations or do their best to
prevent them because in their minds they may already be planning a breakup.
If your partner is putting you down, this can be another sign of a waning relationship. Responding negatively toward you is a hurtful tactic sometimes used to push a significant other away when they are no longer wanted. It may, in your guy’s mind, be easier for him to hold you at a distance through causing the blame to fall on his shoulders than it is for him to outright say what he is feeling.
Many men have difficulty expressing their feelings, and being cruel is one solution. Treating your passions as stupid, making fun of the way you look, or not allowing you to complete a thought out loud are just a few of the “put downs” that may take place if you are dating a disinterested man who no longer has any regard for your feelings.
Lastly, a couple may find that their biggest red flag in a relationship is due to a severe escalation in their amount of arguments. Suddenly they fight about anything and everything, making it difficult to function as a couple. Fortunately, most couples do not resort to verbal or physical abuse, but many breakups occur due to too much arguing.
If your partner is putting you down, this can be another sign of a waning relationship. Responding negatively toward you is a hurtful tactic sometimes used to push a significant other away when they are no longer wanted. It may, in your guy’s mind, be easier for him to hold you at a distance through causing the blame to fall on his shoulders than it is for him to outright say what he is feeling.
Many men have difficulty expressing their feelings, and being cruel is one solution. Treating your passions as stupid, making fun of the way you look, or not allowing you to complete a thought out loud are just a few of the “put downs” that may take place if you are dating a disinterested man who no longer has any regard for your feelings.
Lastly, a couple may find that their biggest red flag in a relationship is due to a severe escalation in their amount of arguments. Suddenly they fight about anything and everything, making it difficult to function as a couple. Fortunately, most couples do not resort to verbal or physical abuse, but many breakups occur due to too much arguing.
Couples drift, and
this can cause their life ambitions to take off on divided paths, forcing them
to leave a once valuable relationship behind. If your partner is being
argumentative, try your best to open up the lines of communication. However, be
prepared for a potentially disappointing response.
Warning signs in relationships are not always obvious, but when it is time for something to end, you will probably know it. Unfortunately many women act as if they do not know until things have escalated to such a point that leaving is a much more emotionally painful experience than what was probably necessary. Remember, you have value and love to give, and it is a shame to waste it on someone who is just going to throw it away.
Warning signs in relationships are not always obvious, but when it is time for something to end, you will probably know it. Unfortunately many women act as if they do not know until things have escalated to such a point that leaving is a much more emotionally painful experience than what was probably necessary. Remember, you have value and love to give, and it is a shame to waste it on someone who is just going to throw it away.
By Tamara Warta
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