If she isn't getting her way, she might back off and become more unavailable, busier, or less talkative than usual. Pulling away from you will hopefully, in her mind, have you wondering about her whereabouts or her commitment to you. If you feel left out of her life, you may start fearing that she's moving on, and she figures you'll be more likely to bend to her will on contentious issues to solidify your relationship and display your commitment.
Counterattack: Simple and direct is the order of the day -- ask her if she still wants to be in a relationship with you. She'll be forced to admit that her unavailability or lack of communication is a ploy and not a symptom of actual couple problems.
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