101 Phone Sex Tips

1. Start out by telling your lover how much you want to fuck them – right now.
2. Talk about your hottest fantasy.
3. Read aloud from an erotic novel.
4. Sip some wine to get in the mood before you call.
5. Make certain the house is quiet and there are no interruptions.
6. Lock the doors!
7. Remind your partner of a naughty time together to get the fire started.
8. Tell how what you are wearing – and be honest.
9. Describe to him how you are undressing, piece by piece.
10. Let him hear as you spray perfume on your wrists.
11. Describe how it smells. Describe the room. Describe everything!
12. See phone sex as “painting a picture” in the mind of your partner.
13. Ask your partner to use props – maybe handcuffs around one wrist to symbolize your domination, or a candle to bring more intimacy to the room.
14. Wear a blindfold to enhance the experience of not being able to see your partner.
15. Drop your voice to a sultry growl.
16. Talk about what entices you most about your partner.
17. Ask your lover naughty questions.
18. “Confess” something you did in your past that you want to try again.
19. Keep ice chips nearby to keep your mouth moist while you talk.
20. Want to give him the blowjob experience? Suck a lollipop while he listens.
21. If you’re the guy receiving the blowjob experience, use lots of lube to simulate saliva.
22. Ask your lover to describe their favorite fantasy scenario.
23. Use the postal service to help – send your panties through the mail so they are available and ready the next time you
and your lover have phone sex.
24. Don’t be afraid to put the phone near your “private parts” so your partner can hear what you are doing with your
fingers.
25. Let your partner tell you how to touch yourself.
26. Watch porn together! Rent the same movie and start it on the same scene or time stamp. You can watch it together
from two separate places.
27. Tell your partner how you want them to come.
28. Try new positions – who says you have to be lying down while you get it on over the phone?
29. Remember everything your partner tells you so you can use it later, when you’re together physically.
30. When you’re ready for phone sex, get comfortable. Sitting in the kitchen chair might work for talking, but not for
getting it on!
31. Speak in a clear yet sultry voice.
32. Don’t be afraid to get loud! Your partner will love it.
33. Carry the fun from one conversation to another. Start out with foreplay during the day and finish up at night.
34. Too tired to use a vibrator? The sound of your electric toothbrush works just the same.
35. Your moans are encouragement for your partner to keep talking.
36. Ask your partner what they are wearing. Trust me, it works!
37. Tongue tied? Write a story in first person and read it aloud.
38. Wear that sexy lingerie to make the whole experience more realistic and fulfilling.
39. Experiment with your words. How explicit can you get?
40. Weave a fantasy so hot you have to stop talking. That’s hotter than the fantasy itself!
41. If there is a word you don’t like to use, simply don’t say it.
42. If you prefer your partner doesn’t say it, tell them gently – but not while you’re in the heat of the moment.
43. Want to simulate being in the bathtub? Run water in your sink and slosh it around.
44. Send your partner a vibrator through the mail and ask them to use it while you listen.
45. Spank yourself for your partner – if they are into spanking, the fact that you are doing it to yourself will really turn
them on.
46. Use phone sex to explore your kinkiest desires, the ones you can’t fulfill on a physical level.
47. Curse like a sailor if you’re into it. It’s a clue that you want to get more hardcore.
48. If he has a schoolgirl fetish, tell him about the new plaid skirt you’re wearing.
49. If she has a need to be dominated, tell her about the new whip you just bought.
50. If you don’t like the flow of the conversation, take charge and tell you partner what they are going to do.
51. Let your lover hear your orgasm. Don’t hide a single bit of it.
52. On the other hand, playing around but agreeing not to orgasm is a fun twist!
53. Always say your lover’s name, so they know you are truly into it with them.
54. You can be anyone when you’re having phone sex, so have fun with roleplaying.
55. One of the best roleplay phone sex games is the naughty telemarketer…you know you want to buy what he’s selling,
don’t you?
56. Don’t be afraid to use your toys to simulate anal sex. Your partner will love it!
57. By the same token, sucking on a vibrator will sound just like sucking on a dick.
58. Sometimes act as though someone else is in the room, watching – and let your partner direct the action over the
phone line.
59. If you’re the very open-minded type, have sex with someone while your phone sex partner listens in.
60. Better yet, call a phone sex hotline and conference it. You can both get off with a pro!
61. If you are in the same house as your partner, go into the bathroom with the cell phone and lock the door – then call
them and have phone sex. It’s a fun twist on the same old sex routine!
62. Describe everything your body is doing – nipples hard, breathing hard, etc.
63. Try to reach orgasm at the same time.
64. Call your lover sexy names, like slut or whore.
65. Let your partner give you instructions before you have phone sex. You might be told to wear a cock ring while you
wait for the call, or to use a dildo to get you wet before he rings you up.
66. Don’t come until your partner gives you the “okay.”
67. Smile when you talk – it makes your voice sound happier.
68. Give your lover dares, like masturbating with the windows open.
69. Send photographs of your sexiest lingerie to feed his phone sex fantasies.
70. Simply listen to your partner masturbate until orgasm – and then do the same for them. The act of listening and not
talking at all can enhance the experience.
71. Tell them how turned on you are.
72. Ask them what they want you to do to yourself. Tell them it can be anything!
73. Use sex toys, like nipple clamps, to heighten sensation when talking about a BDSM fantasy.
74. Let your phone sex partner hear the sound of your vibrator sliding in and out of you.
75. Spice it up with naughty text messages during the day.
76. Want to make phone sex hotter? Use a webcam.
77. If you’re on the kinky side, jack off on something – or in something – and send it to your lover.
78. Don’t be afraid to taste yourself – your partner will love the sound of that.
79. Tell them how much you love their voice.
80. If they have a filthy mind, tell them so – and ask them to tell you more.
81. Tell your partner what you are going to do to them the next time you see them. Keep it real – you might be asked to
deliver!
82. Put on hot music in the background and tell your partner you want to fuck to the beat.
83. Send your male partner a “pocket pussy” to engage in phone sex fantasies with you.
84. Don’t forget to laugh – phone sex should be fun!
85. If you’re having phone sex with a stranger, get your own orgasm first – it’s sad to say, but many people will cut and
run after they get theirs, and you don’t want that!
86. If you’re open-minded, have phone sex in front of your friends.
87. Have phone sex with someone across a crowded bar – you can’t see them, but you can hear them, and it’s a huge
turn-on.
88. Videotape yourself having phone sex with your partner, then send it to them.
89. Make an audio recording of you getting off to your partner’s words.
90. Don’t want to cheat on your partner but need more spice in your life? Have phone sex with someone else.
91. Set a “date” for phone sex and make it stretch out for two or three hours.
92. Tease your partner with your orgasm when they are in a place where phone sex is not a good idea – like when they
are driving, or in a business meeting.
93. Tell your partner you have just shaved your private parts, and describe how slick they are now that you are aroused
for them.
94. Jump on a phone sex chat line for spur-of-the-moment ideas.
95. Does your phone have a good speaker? Have phone sex in the shower.
96. Go to a public place and get it on over the phone. Make it a place your partner knows, so you can have a memory to
share.
97. Kiss your hand near the phone for the perfect sound of kisses on your partner’s skin.
98. Use the hottest dirty talk phrases you can imagine.
99. Spin a naughty fantasy that you could not possibly act out in real life.
100. Tell your partner exactly how you are touching yourself.
101. Remember to say “thank you” for letting you listen to their most intimate moments.
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