1. Your partner is acting strange and distant.
2. They suddenly have new friends they want to spend more time with.
3. You find an email account you never knew they had.
4. They often come home late at night and aren’t hungry for dinner.
5. Their old friends seem to have disappeared.
6. They hang up the phone as soon as you walk into the room.
7. They run out to the store for frivolous things that could have waited.
8. They bring home extravagant gifts for no reason.
9. You stumble upon email correspondence that leads you to a dating site.
10. They are always too tired for sex.
11. You see strange numbers on the phone bill.
12. They never answer the phone in their hotel room while they are away.
13. They erase all messages and missed calls from their phone history.
14. They don’t flirt with you or respond to your advances any longer.
15. They get a parking ticket from a place they shouldn’t have been.
16. You find cologne or perfume in the glove compartment of their car.
17. Someone who doesn’t smoke suddenly smells like cigarettes when they come home.
18. They ask their cell phone provider to stop itemizing their calls.
19. They clear the history on the computer every day.
20. They start talking in terms of “what if” and suggesting that things might change in the future.
21. They find a good reason to storm out of the house to “clear their head.”
22. They play on the internet much more often.
23. They want to spend less time as a family and more time alone.
24. Their friends begin avoiding you.
25. They say they work overtime, but their checks don’t reflect more pay.
26. There are strange ATM withdrawals on the account.
27. Their body language is evasive.
28. They can’t look you in the eye anymore.
29. You find Viagra hidden in his briefcase.
30. When you ask where they have been, their answers sound rehearsed.
31. Someone runs into them while they are with someone else, and calls to tell you.
32. Your phone rings but when you answer, the person hangs up.
33. Odd charges pop up on the credit card bill.
34. They put distance between you when you are both in the same room.
35. They begin using instant messenger when they had no need for it before.
36. They pick fights over little things that make no sense.
37. Your friends begin dropping hints about your partner’s faithfulness.
38. They don’t answer their cell phone when you call.
39. As soon as they pull out of the driveway, they start making calls on their cell phone.
40. When they call back, they are annoyed that you called in the first place.
41. They come home smelling like a fresh shower.
42. They start wearing sexy lingerie or switch from boxers to briefs.
43. He takes off his wedding band.
44. She suddenly has a new piece of expensive jewelry.
45. You find condoms in the glove compartment.
46. They have a sudden interest in new sexual fetishes.
47. They get upset if you answer their cell phone.
48. They call you by someone else’s name.
49. They come home smelling of a body wash you have never bought for them.
50. They stay up late or get up early to use the computer in private.
51. They take business trips more frequently than ever.
52. They lose interest in having sex with you.
53. Vacations and longer trips always seem to get canceled at the last minute.
54. She is suddenly very concerned with birth control methods.
55. They encourage you to take a trip alone.
56. They seem to mention one particular person at work more than others.
57. You smell perfume or cologne that is not yours when you walk into your house, as though someone has been
there…but your partner denies it.
58. You are no longer invited along on business trips.
59. You find condom wrappers under the bed — but you don’t use condoms.
60. They get defensive when you ask them a question.
61. They shut down internet windows very quickly when you walk into a room.
62. The radio in the car is set to a station neither of you ever listen to.
63. They have suddenly used up all their vacation days, but they didn’t use them with you.
64. Your partner suddenly breaks out the new moves in bed.
65. You find love notes in their pocket.
66. The children mention your partner’s “special friend.”
67. You find a receipt for a hotel or restaurant you have never visited.
68. Your partner shows up with love bites or scratches on their body.
69. They seem to be looking for something you might do wrong.
70. They ridicule you for questioning whether they are faithful.
71. Their boss calls looking for them — but they told YOU they were on a business trip for the company.
72. They are suddenly confident about everything and walk with a bounce in their step.
73. They seem very suspicious of you for no reason at all.
74. The thought of taking a vacation makes them depressed rather than happy.
75. Your partner purchases prepaid phone cards when they have a working cell phone.
76. He suddenly wants to do all the laundry.
77. She has new lingerie that she never wears for you.
78. The mileage on the car says they didn’t drive to the office — they drove out of town.
79. They aren’t registered at the hotel they told you they would be staying at for the conference.
80. You find unusual stains on their clothes.
81. They suddenly ask you for an open relationship.
82. A certain someone leaves flirty messages on their Facebook or MySpace page.
83. Your partner makes your bed with fresh sheets every few days — but they never bothered to make the bed before.
84. Their car smells like someone else’s perfume or cologne.
85. The GPS in the car shows an unusual address.
86. They claim to play golf every Saturday, but their golf bags haven’t been moved.
87. You find flirty text messages on their phone.
88. The passenger seat is often in a strange position – certainly not the one you left it in!
89. They have a post office box for no apparent reason.
90. They want to know where you are at all times.
91. She suddenly wants a makeover and new clothes.
92. You come home early and catch them with their lover.
93. He starts going to the tanning bed.
94. You catch them in a lie, and they tell another lie to get out of it.
95. You get an interesting email from someone who claims to be your partner’s new lover.
96. A gym membership becomes the most important thing in the world.
97. You go to the doctor and discover you have an STD…but you have been with ONLY your partner.
98. They panic when you tell them and try to blame you.
99. You discover a secret savings account.
100. You mention your concerns and your partner accuses you of being crazy.
101. Your gut tells you something is wrong — and you can’t shake that feeling.
2. They suddenly have new friends they want to spend more time with.
3. You find an email account you never knew they had.
4. They often come home late at night and aren’t hungry for dinner.
5. Their old friends seem to have disappeared.
6. They hang up the phone as soon as you walk into the room.
7. They run out to the store for frivolous things that could have waited.
8. They bring home extravagant gifts for no reason.
9. You stumble upon email correspondence that leads you to a dating site.
10. They are always too tired for sex.
11. You see strange numbers on the phone bill.
12. They never answer the phone in their hotel room while they are away.
13. They erase all messages and missed calls from their phone history.
14. They don’t flirt with you or respond to your advances any longer.
15. They get a parking ticket from a place they shouldn’t have been.
16. You find cologne or perfume in the glove compartment of their car.
17. Someone who doesn’t smoke suddenly smells like cigarettes when they come home.
18. They ask their cell phone provider to stop itemizing their calls.
19. They clear the history on the computer every day.
20. They start talking in terms of “what if” and suggesting that things might change in the future.
21. They find a good reason to storm out of the house to “clear their head.”
22. They play on the internet much more often.
23. They want to spend less time as a family and more time alone.
24. Their friends begin avoiding you.
25. They say they work overtime, but their checks don’t reflect more pay.
26. There are strange ATM withdrawals on the account.
27. Their body language is evasive.
28. They can’t look you in the eye anymore.
29. You find Viagra hidden in his briefcase.
30. When you ask where they have been, their answers sound rehearsed.
31. Someone runs into them while they are with someone else, and calls to tell you.
32. Your phone rings but when you answer, the person hangs up.
33. Odd charges pop up on the credit card bill.
34. They put distance between you when you are both in the same room.
35. They begin using instant messenger when they had no need for it before.
36. They pick fights over little things that make no sense.
37. Your friends begin dropping hints about your partner’s faithfulness.
38. They don’t answer their cell phone when you call.
39. As soon as they pull out of the driveway, they start making calls on their cell phone.
40. When they call back, they are annoyed that you called in the first place.
41. They come home smelling like a fresh shower.
42. They start wearing sexy lingerie or switch from boxers to briefs.
43. He takes off his wedding band.
44. She suddenly has a new piece of expensive jewelry.
45. You find condoms in the glove compartment.
46. They have a sudden interest in new sexual fetishes.
47. They get upset if you answer their cell phone.
48. They call you by someone else’s name.
49. They come home smelling of a body wash you have never bought for them.
50. They stay up late or get up early to use the computer in private.
51. They take business trips more frequently than ever.
52. They lose interest in having sex with you.
53. Vacations and longer trips always seem to get canceled at the last minute.
54. She is suddenly very concerned with birth control methods.
55. They encourage you to take a trip alone.
56. They seem to mention one particular person at work more than others.
57. You smell perfume or cologne that is not yours when you walk into your house, as though someone has been
there…but your partner denies it.
58. You are no longer invited along on business trips.
59. You find condom wrappers under the bed — but you don’t use condoms.
60. They get defensive when you ask them a question.
61. They shut down internet windows very quickly when you walk into a room.
62. The radio in the car is set to a station neither of you ever listen to.
63. They have suddenly used up all their vacation days, but they didn’t use them with you.
64. Your partner suddenly breaks out the new moves in bed.
65. You find love notes in their pocket.
66. The children mention your partner’s “special friend.”
67. You find a receipt for a hotel or restaurant you have never visited.
68. Your partner shows up with love bites or scratches on their body.
69. They seem to be looking for something you might do wrong.
70. They ridicule you for questioning whether they are faithful.
71. Their boss calls looking for them — but they told YOU they were on a business trip for the company.
72. They are suddenly confident about everything and walk with a bounce in their step.
73. They seem very suspicious of you for no reason at all.
74. The thought of taking a vacation makes them depressed rather than happy.
75. Your partner purchases prepaid phone cards when they have a working cell phone.
76. He suddenly wants to do all the laundry.
77. She has new lingerie that she never wears for you.
78. The mileage on the car says they didn’t drive to the office — they drove out of town.
79. They aren’t registered at the hotel they told you they would be staying at for the conference.
80. You find unusual stains on their clothes.
81. They suddenly ask you for an open relationship.
82. A certain someone leaves flirty messages on their Facebook or MySpace page.
83. Your partner makes your bed with fresh sheets every few days — but they never bothered to make the bed before.
84. Their car smells like someone else’s perfume or cologne.
85. The GPS in the car shows an unusual address.
86. They claim to play golf every Saturday, but their golf bags haven’t been moved.
87. You find flirty text messages on their phone.
88. The passenger seat is often in a strange position – certainly not the one you left it in!
89. They have a post office box for no apparent reason.
90. They want to know where you are at all times.
91. She suddenly wants a makeover and new clothes.
92. You come home early and catch them with their lover.
93. He starts going to the tanning bed.
94. You catch them in a lie, and they tell another lie to get out of it.
95. You get an interesting email from someone who claims to be your partner’s new lover.
96. A gym membership becomes the most important thing in the world.
97. You go to the doctor and discover you have an STD…but you have been with ONLY your partner.
98. They panic when you tell them and try to blame you.
99. You discover a secret savings account.
100. You mention your concerns and your partner accuses you of being crazy.
101. Your gut tells you something is wrong — and you can’t shake that feeling.
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