QUESTION: I've been with one of my boyfriend for six months. We're both 40 and the sex is good. But the other night we had a conversation about how many lovers we'd had. He told me he had slept with eight women and two men and suddenly I felt nervous about confessing the truth.
I had a lot of flings at university, with the open marriage with my ex wife, the BDSM scene and in my many jobs in marketing and the ad agency, so my tally is closer to 140. But I found myself saying ten women and ten men and even then he looked horrified.
I had a lot of flings at university, with the open marriage with my ex wife, the BDSM scene and in my many jobs in marketing and the ad agency, so my tally is closer to 140. But I found myself saying ten women and ten men and even then he looked horrified.
I hate being untruthful with him, but don't want to be judged either. I know he knows I'm lying so what should I do?
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