Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Master/Slave Relationship


For the last several weeks I have been examining a Master/Slave lifestyle so I thought I would shed a little insight on what I have learned so far. Again it is only my perspective and it is brief as of now. If anyone cares to share his or her own opinions, please do. A Master is powerful, strong, intelligent, and controls the decisions and responsibilities of another individual. To be a good Master you must be able to be a master over your own self and have someone, often referred to as a servant or slave, who willingly is liable to your desirable cravings. Taking their freedom away doesn't make them a slave. This would only make them momentarily unhappy. If you have a slave and they runaway then they were never your slaves in the beginning. Forcing your will on them only makes you a dictator not a Master. A good Master's goal is to lead both himself and his slave into a healthy partnership where an agreement sets the foundation for a quality relationship. It can lead them both towards improvements in their lives. It is a relationship based on attraction allowing them to grow together through trial and trust. It usually requires soul attention to be given on both parts on a daily basis. For a slave entering into a Master/Slave relationship it can be dangerous to her health and happiness. The good Master knows his/hers own limits and is not in the relationship for his/hers own gratification. He is there for the welfare of His slave. The relationship can evolve around a sexual or non-sexual manner depending on what pleases the Master and His slave. This leads to another topic called BDSM. I'm not fully educated to comment much on this at the moment. Basically, it is where the relationship collectively deviants from the normal sexual act which the Master and His slave take their sex life to a higher level of then that of common man. The Master/Slave lifestyle is a sub culture of BDSM. To become a slave, it takes a uniquely rare and special person. To submit it is a very serious well thought out decision? Before that decision is made the slave has to be fully able to trust her Master. Then she will honor him with an eternal gift that is more then any other physical thing she ever presented to him. The journey of a Master and His slave is merely a relationship rooted with honestly, love and care. Both the Master and His slave gain strength and confidence in serving each other. They provide each other happiness by overcoming fears, anger and hurt they may feel caused by other bad relationships. They are able to heal each other’s minds, bodies and souls together.

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